We float or vegetate through life, doing what is “right” or expected from us, awaiting to reach the next goal or the next milestone we set ourselves, and think that when we are there, everything will be fine. But once there, things are still not right, so we go on to the next challenge.

Our over-achiever society pushes us to believe that the solution is to be better, harder, more! Track yourself! Improve! Medicate! Change! Whatever it takes!
→ Fix yourself as soon as possible so you can meet the expectations and go back to “normal” (whatever that is) and always push more, try to be “perfect”.

But, the problem prevails because we keep doing the wrong choices for the wrong reasons, for a very simple reason:

We are lost without a compass.

The irony is: we are all born with an integrated compass, which is our intuition and our feelings! But growing up we learned to reject, bury and ignore them until we forgot their use and existence. We just get to see them when they explode in our faces uncontrolled and mostly misunderstood.

Now, if we want to find our way, we need to find it, put it all together and re-learn how to read it.

The beauty of this is: it’s a win-win situation!

Getting out of the hamster wheel, finding your purpose in life and maybe even happiness is all possible when you know what makes you smile, what makes you feel alive, what you want, what you enjoy, what gives you energy, what gives you peace, what motivates you and basically what makes your life worth living!

I therefore invite you to get in touch with yourself and all what makes us amazing human beings, reuniting-yourself

How to reunite yourself?

First, it is very important to mention that there is no solution or tool that works for everyone. We are all different, have different experiences, tastes and preferences. This means, that you have to try things out by yourself to know what suits YOU.
You are trying to find out what YOU LIKE, how YOU FEEL, what do YOU WANT…
Nobody can tell you that. Only you know what is best for you!
But you DO know it! You just need to find it out!
Sounds scary and like a lot of work? Maybe, but nothing comes from nothing. And it’s worth it, if in the end you find your track and can live the life you want for yourself.

Second, Rome was not built in a day and neither does anyone take up habits or change their ways overnight. It’s like wanting to loose 10kg in 1 day. It is simply not possible without loosing body parts or massive illness!
So don’t expect anything to disappear just like that.
Be patient. Be conscious. Keep trying. It pays off when you least expect it!

Third, try not to force or stress yourself into performance!
You will achieve the opposite that you want: you will just block yourself.

Remember that expectations and the will to perform are paradoxically your worst enemies in any kind of personal development.

Take it easy! What happens, happens and if nothing does, that is also fine. It is how it is. It is where you are right now and that is ok.
If possible, learn something from the experience and move on, but keep on trying!

When in doubt, just remember: It’s all just part of the fun! 😀

So browse around, read what attracts you and I hope what you find is of value to you.

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Coaching – Life Transformation

After being a successful international Project Manager and Automation Engineer for many years, I realized that my life's purpose and what makes me happy is helping people be themselves, trust themselves and support them living the lives they want to live through coaching and facilitation.

Changing my life from the ground up was not easy and it took a lot of time and hard work. I tried many things and also made many experiences (some people might call them “mistakes”, I don’t).
I had to and continue to let go of baggage, blockages and beliefs which stop me from living the life I want to live. This process has been very necessary, rewarding and I have learned a lot along the way. I am very happy I did it, as I have found myself and my path.

My wish is to use all this acquired knowledge, experiences and my personal abilities to help you and motivate you to live the life you want to live.

As your coach, I will be guiding you in the right direction (for you) and giving you the shortcuts and information I wish I would have gotten when I went through my transformation.
Let me worry about the tools, the theory, the necessary tasks, the organization, … so you can concentrate on applying them for yourself and going through the process of getting where you want to be.

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